What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 07:42
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
How can you tell if someone is cunning?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
Why do boobs of some girls bounce when they walk?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
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Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Why don't men find fat women attractive?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Why doesn’t Melania Trump do some more modeling?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
How can fashion design be used to make a political statement in popular culture, and society?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
Do leftists understand why young men are becoming more right-wing?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
What is one thing nice you did for someone today or something they did for you?
Any that are a turn off?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
What made you feel satisfied about your life today?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
52~ What are your hobbies?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
39~ What are your love languages?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Would you read them together?
Family Relation Age Play
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Nothing too Serious
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
*** Questions About Me ***
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
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The Ice Breaker Questions
Any that are a turn off?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
How old are you? Male or Female?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
*** Random Questions ***
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Please share Did you stop?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
If yes, what?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
29- How superstitious are you?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?